Urban Myths about Orgasm

I was talking to my friends the other day, over a hot cup of coffee at Starbucks, about a lot of myths circulating the town.It's gators in the sewers, the shelf life of a Twinkie and orgasms.

So I thought that for today, I shall enlighten all of you by debunking some "big O" myths.

Let's start with the general idea that all women crave for a G-spot orgasm.It totally not true.Do all men like chocolate ice cream? No, so way make a general opinion about our preferences?
Yes, most of us like a G-spot orgasm, but it's a myth that all of us want it.Many girls say that the stimulation of their G-spot is associated with a great discomfort.Some of my friend say they feel the need to pee.Some tell that they feel pain, and not good pain, not S&M pain.
Add to this the fact that such a myth transformed into a frenzy for all men, and now none of them really feel like they are pleasing us until the hit the G-point.
So to sum things up : while some women love it, other don't so find out fist what make your partner tick!

Another thing that was bugging me for some time, and now I get the chance to talk about it, it the myth that women really need to orgasm in order to enjoy themselves.I'll tell you on the spot 99% of the world men population believe this.It isn't one of them who evaluates his work by asking wetter or not you had an orgasm.So many girls end up faking one, just to please their partner.You can see by now how this can become a vicious circle.
News flash people: sex is fun! If it weren't, man kind had died a long time ago.Yes we love a good climax but we also love the long foreplay with kissing, hugging and caressing.And all of these are sometimes more satisfying then anything seen on a  porn video .So do not focus to much on how you should end things, but try to make it a very fun/ sensual/ sexy/ romantic/ hot experience for you both.

Last one is about you guys and the myth that says we need a very skilled partner to orgasm.Yes, someone with experience will know just what to do and how to make us explode, but if a women is not archiving orgasm, it mostly her fault.There are many things to discuss here, like psychological issues and anxiety levels that women have.
So even if you are Don Juan de Marco, you will not be able to make such a women reach the big O.

Hope I've made some of you breath more easily tonight.
If you've heard some other myths about orgasm please comment and let's see if we could debunk them together.