Midnight therapy: your girl & porn

Most of my friends come to me for advice on relationships.I do not know when this started, but it just did, and now they all do it.Girls want advice on men, and guys want to know all they can about what makes a woman tick.Adam, my neighbor from two floors up, came to me lat night around 10.I was taking by bubble bath, a sort of ritual I have and in which I do not like to get any disturbance.But there he was, am 25 year old man, sobbing.I was dripping on my hardwood floor, and my hair was a mess, but I could not let him there like a puppy in a storm.So I made him a cup of coffee and we both sat on the couch.
He started telling me the story about him and his girlfriend.A very nice romance actually.She’s a gamer, he’s a gamer.She likes a cold beer, he likes a cold beer.And the similarities could go on forever.
And then it happened.It was one night before, and they were playing some board games and drinking beer with some friends.And then she apparently said to him (out loud) that she thinks porn is hot.
At that moment I was almost loosing my interest in the story.Imagine how a simple word like porn woke me up.I’ve understood she was conservative in bed so this came as a sock to him.
And full of anticipation he went to a XXX store and grabbed some of the first porn movies she set his eyes on.He didn’t want to miss the unique opportunity.So last night he played one of the movies for her....
And as you can clearly understand, if he was crying on my couch, she made a big scandal of this.

He could not understand what he did wrong.(Men!)

So this was my advice to him and to all the guys that think any porn video is good if their girlfriend say they are into it.
Take it slow! You do not want to creep the poor girl out by showing her Asian hentai or “two girls one cup”.
You can delicately open the subject after dinner, while you are cuddling in front of the TV.Ask what types of porn she enjoys.Never ever make suppositions.Maybe after you can go together to a XXX store, or better yet, surf the web for some free videos.Now they have some movies in HD if you want a more realistic depiction.

So take it slow and never forget that if she is at the beginning of experimenting with this kinf of thing, she will defiantly have mixed emotions about it.Comfort her and make her understand it’s a normal desire.